Convenient at the best of times, and frustrating at the worst, in this day and age, we’ve come to constantly rely on technology. Our whole lives exist on a screen that we hold in our hands. While it has many amazing benefits, I can’t help but wonder if we are becoming out of touch with the real world because of it.
Younger generations don’t know what life was like before screens. They have never experienced a world without a screen, when you had to seek out the answers that weren’t just at the click of the button, and I really think there are negative consequences to that.
Virtual vs Reality
Recently, whilst walking my dog I noticed so many dog walkers distracted by their phones. They took no notice of their surroundings, of nature, of their dogs playing or of people passing by. This made me think about what I would have done when I was young if I’d been walking through the park and saw a butterfly, for example. I’d have been curious to learn more, but it wouldn’t have been as simple as whipping my phone out of my pocket and asking trusty-old Google what kind of species it was.
I reflected on this and realised that if I had wanted to learn more, I’d have waited for a free afternoon and taken myself to the library. Getting information wasn’t as easily accessible as it is now, but I think there are many advantages to that. The process would have looked something like this:
Walk to the library
Look at things on the way
Talk to the librarian
Find the section
Look at the books on butterflies
Make a selection
Go to the desk and communicate with someone
Walk home
Read the book
Remember to take it back
Real World Interactions
In this small, nothing-out-of-the-ordinary encounter, I would have actually gained a lot. Walking to the library in the fresh air would have been mentally and physically beneficial, exercising my body and clearing my head.
On arrival, I would have chatted with the librarian, who would have guided me to the right place, recommending butterfly books and no doubt other insects that might have been of interest. In the present day, if I just google the answers from the comfort of my armchair, it takes away that social interaction, potentially missing out on interesting conversations.
At the library, I’d have spent some time perusing the shelves and looking for a book that matched what I was looking for. Maybe while I was there, something else would have caught my eye, giving me the chance to learn something new.
Arms full of butterfly books, I’d have headed back to the counter and communicated with another person in the library as they stamped my books before walking home, thinking about this little adventure.
Back home, I’d have put the kettle on, made a cup of tea and spent some time reading the book, paying attention to the images and making notes so that the next time I was out on a walk, I could identify the butterfly. Some days later, I would return the book to the library and the cycle would start again.
Finding Balance
While technology makes everything seem more convenient, I’m concerned we’re missing out on elements of life that make us human, and that give us time and space to nurture our well-being.
Whether it’s social media, TV streaming, emails or Google, the internet can be distracting from real life. While it certainly opens doors to worlds beyond just butterflies, the endless amount of information that fills the internet is overwhelming, and we don’t know if what we read is true or false, or if we even really need to know it.
With that being said, I think there’s a balance to be had where we integrate screen time without it being completely all-consuming. What are your thoughts on this?